Hello dear world....
I need some advice quick, quick, quick !!! That guy that came up to me at my work called today. I wasn't home to talk to him which leads to why I need advice. I want to call him but I don't know what I should say. I have NEVER called a guy. I am afraid that I am going to say something stupid. I am nervous when I think about calling him. I don't know this guy or anything about him. He called me but I haven't returned his call. What should I say ?? What will he think ? What will he say ? I am 29 years old and I'm nervous about calling a guy for the first time. I am filled with nerves......I need some advice....I know that I sound a little nuts asking for advice simply about calling a guy but there it is. I have NEVER had a boyfriend so I guess this doesn't sound so entirely weird or does it ??
Its later in the evening and a lot of my nerves have slipped away. I will call him and I'm sure talking to him will be nice. I don't know what might come of it but I'm hoping we hit it off you never know. Tomorrow I will call him. Spencer of the journal Spencer's Place gave me some great advice.
I will tell you all about it tomorrow....
Dear world.......good night
3 comments:
In light of what you said in the last sentence I can undersand a lot of your anticipation and nervousness. First, take a deep breath. Then in your head or perhaps even jot down a few things you might wish to know about him as a basis for starting a conversation. Wouldn't you like to know what made him attracted to you. What interest does he have. His hobbies? What things you might have in common. I feel questions along those lines might be easy to handle and allow you to learn more about him.
No, you do not sound weird. Just innocent and vulnerable. I feel it to be a delightful nearly delectable innocence. Good luck to you and do call him.
Spencer
http://journals.aol.com/yeolecontractor/SpencersPlace
Go ahead and call him today. Just try to be yourself. Who knows where it might lead. Then if you don't like the way things sound you have a choice to end it before it gets a good start. Just take things easy & don't try to rush into anything. Helen
Do it!!!
V
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